Be the wind in my sail
Engage your spouse in a discussion talking about how the business will benefit them – more money, more time, less work, nicer home, new car, etc. Let them know that you can be more productive and successful with their support and that you’d like them to be the “wind in your sails” not the “anchor that holds your boat back.” By making your spouse part of the process and sharing your dreams together you should be able to move forward and address the issues that are causing that “anchor effect.”